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  1. Even though the story is fiction- One feels sorry for the young girl. Like Neo said, nothing is really said in print about what the girl thinks or why she is going back day after day. But as someone told me once a long time ago- He who loves least in a relationship, controls the relationship.
    And yet in a mature relationship, one should always seek to free the other and not control the other.
    I know I’m blathering on here about a fictional character, but I wonder- Did she hear what she wanted to hear? Was it a game for Jamie? But too much thought, I will say it is a good short story. But I wonder, did Jamie ever exist outside her imagination? And why didn’t someone answer the door? But again, it is just fiction, back to reality. Or at best my view of reality. Here is a pdf link for her other short story- The lottery.

    http://www.d.umn.edu/~csigler/PDF%20files/jackson_lottery.pdf

    Not to clutter up the blog with personal items.
    But the short story about The Fifty-first Dragon, has always stuck with me since I read it 30 yrs ago.
    One should be careful when trying to get a knight to slay a dragon. And doubly careful when pulling back the curtain to expose the reality of the wizard. Reality can have sad unintended consequences for the simple people 🙂
    Enjoy
    http://www.bartleby.com/237/33.html

  2. Hey, it is tough. But what about the child whose parent has left the family without explanation, severs all ties, and silently lives somewhere else far away? There are degrees of hurt and degrees of ability to get over it.

  3. Tonawanda, that’s the worst kind of cold. I have friends with that experience and it still affects them. The only one that I know who got any sort of closure was a young man who became quite successful, made his estranged father aware of the fact, and then used initial contact to get enough information to locate and sue him for unpaid child support, plus interest. The heartless SOB tried to argue that his “new” sons needed the money for college, but the judgment went against him.

    Honestly, the only proper reason to “ghost” is if there’s an abusive or possessive relationship. But based on my own and other friends’ experiences, it seems as if most “ghosts” used their paramours or are too immature to face a break-up.

  4. Someone I thought was a friend, a person who had been honest and kind and sweet, tossed me out of their life during a phone call. While I was on a short break at work.

    Years of practice brave-facing the world let me smile my way through the rest of the workday; and the magic of passing time lets me remember the good times and forgive the rest.

    Still, I wish there had been even the shortest face-to-face goodbye. It felt unjust and unworthy of both of us, and still does.

  5. On a completely separate Shirley Jackson related topic, she had a witty and perceptive side that she indulged with the writing of two books about raising her children. Under-appreciated, timelessly funny and probably out of print, they are well worth finding:

    Raising Demons
    Life Among the Savages

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